The seven useless descriptors in 2018

The one word which has been removed from the social vocabulary over the last few decades, especially in West is the ‘N word’. There weren’t any regulations against it but people just stopped using it. No one even respects an individual who uses that anymore. I do know that it is still used in some countries like India and Singapore but overall no one uses it anymore as it has become devoid of any utility.

Keeping the tradition of George Carlin’s ‘ Seven Dirty Words’, I want to share seven words of no social utility in 2018.

  1. Racist
  2. Fascist
  3. Nazi
  4. Free speech crusader
  5. Skin colour(Black activist, brown man, white supremacist)
  6. (Native, African, Asian, European, Indian) American
  7. Islamaphobe

Let me address one point before I take this forward. I do not think there aren’t fascists or racists or Nazis but these words have baggage which is not applicable for a conversation in 2018. Now, I want to go through each word and share why I feel that way. I feel the main reason behind the continuous use of these phrases is that these were some of the important phenomena of the twentieth century that affected people’s lives.

Racist

This term has lost its utility because of two key reasons.

  1. It is only used against white people and that too quite indiscriminately. I have never seen it used against people of Chinese, Indian or African origin. I have seen just as much racism in these cultures as the rest.
  2. The term has become so abused that we are failing to distinguish between people who are really racists or in some instance genocidal against normal people with whom we disagree.

Fascist

Just like racism, I am seeing this term being used against everyone. Many democratically elected leaders from Barack Obama to Donald Trump have been called fascists. Fascism as defined as “the radical authoritarian ultranationalism, characterized by dictatorial power, forcible suppression of opposition and control of industry and commerce“. Any pro-democratic leader cannot be called fascist.

Nazi

Similar to Fascism, National Socialism is a movement defined by the ideology of the Nazi party. The term was coined towards the end of the 18th century. Again not every socialist is a Nazi and not every racial supremacist is a Nazi. It is a significant attack on an individual when you call them a Nazi. It is one thing to call someone a Nazi sympathiser but a leap of irrational faith to call them Nazi. The movement doesn’t exist but for certain pockets. Above all most of them are banned. Even organisations like KKK are not Nazi organisations.

Free speech crusader

This is my pet peeve for this list. I am tired of unintelligent people gaining attention because they referred to themselves as a free speech crusader. I haven’t seen many free speech crusaders in my life. I most definitely don’t see any now. Most of them (even some people I like) like Sam Harris, Jordon Peterson, Douglas Murray, Maajid Nawaz, Bill Maher, Milo Yiannopoulos and Dave Rubin to name a few become free speech activists when

  1. Something doesn’t offend them but there is a general furore around it
  2. Something they say offends people and there are protests against it
  3. Something someone says that they like and there are protests against it

Quoting George Carlin, narrow and selfish interests don’t impress me. I find such crusades to be repugnant just as the people whom they fight.

Skin colour adjectives(Black activist, brown man, white supremacist)

I find this particularly annoying when people refer to others with their skin colour. However, there is a particularly annoying stereotype in this as well. It is never a Black or a Brown Supremacist and a White activist. It is always the other way around when you use the skin colour adjectives. Furthermore, it is always used by people who are against racism.  It is meaningless and above all counterproductive. I also want to differentiate this from people who are comfortable in a neighbourhood of a certain ethnicity. There is nothing wrong with a bunch of people of a certain ethnicity to want to live in the same neighbourhood. It is not racism or bigotry. Also, people like to speak certain languages or live in a certain way. If a bunch of vegan people decide to form a colony and live there, it is not an issue for me. Even if they think that vegans are the best and there should be a country for vegans, I am still fine. Where it becomes a problem is when they infringe on other’s right to exist or live their life a different way. If I replace vegan with white or black or brown, the core of the argument still remains the same. This makes any description of a bunch of people using their skin colour counterproductive to the broad argument that we want to make.

Native, African, Asian, European, Indian American

This one is definitely an American trait. I particularly love the response of Gérard Araud, France’s ambassador to the United States to comedian Trevor Noah’s comment on calling the World Cup winning French Football Team as ‘The African Team’. He said, “Unlike in the United States of America, France does not refer to its citizens based on their race, religion or origin. To us, there is no hyphenated identity. Roots are an individual reality.”. This was followed by people calling French as not a culture for comedy or failure to call people. It does shed light on this rather unintelligent practice of calling people from where they come from and mostly based on their skin colour. Barack Obama was called African American but he was born to a Kenyan father and an American Mother. While he does have a part of his ancestry from Kenya the other part is from England. Calling him African American is both inaccurate and unnecessary.

Islamaphobe

The final one in my list is a recent kid in the block, a 20th creation which can be thrown anywhere in a conversation without it actually adding any value. There are two main reasons why I find this descriptor particularly useless. This word is used in two circumstances.

  1. One religious group who hate the other
  2. Fear of terrorism

In the first point, there is no need for a special word for hatred towards a certain religion. There is no word for hatred towards Buddhism, Jainism, Hinduism, Christianity etc. Anti-Semitism, on the other hand, it not just hatred towards Jews based on their existence, it is hatred towards Jews coming from certain religious constructs within Christianity and Islam against Judaism.

On the second point, it is a genuine problem. Most of my Muslim friends are afraid of terrorism. If calling out against radicalisation and terrorism is bad, I am not sure what is good. So, this usage is also meaningless. Actually, I feel we should rename this to “Terrorphobia” and acknowledge that it is practical.

Rescue of the Thai boys- The world needed it

The world is witnessing an extraordinary spectacle of harmony in the effort to rescue the boys stranded inside a cave in Thailand. From the United States to Australia, from the United Kingdom to China, from individuals to the government, from mainstream media to new age digital media, everyone focussed on rescuing the boys.

Like many others, I felt an emotional connection to the issue. I also felt the whole world was waiting for something to unite us instead of focusing on our differences. Entrepreneurs like Elon Musk wanted to see how he can help. The governments wanted to prove they can help. Students across the globe wanted to show solidarity. Media wanted to report on something beyond politics and hatred. The courage of the 12 boys and their coach was mindblowing. The tenacity of the rescuers and the love and support of the community was surreal.

Now that the rescue has been successfully completed, the division and bickering have started. Elon Musk is upset that his kid’s submarine wasn’t used and called one of the British rescuer ‘a Pedo’. I sincerely hope everyone who tried and even people to just prayed feel happy and stop.

As species, we can definitely look at the incident and reflect on it. Why should it take a catastrophe to bring us together? We all long for happy news which we can create. Our civilisation is not prepared for this digital noise. We all long for the same happiness, the happiness which doesn’t come from hatred, following narcissist rulers, religious fervour or name calling.

Family separation or detention: Ugly side of partisan politics

As an immigrant, I want to be very clear that I am in favour of controlled legal immigration. At the same time, it is hard to look at detention centres and separation of families and not feel the ugly side of the debate. I have so far not seen a single person across the board in any country who has said, we need open borders but somehow that accusation remains. I want to write about immigration in two parts, one on the exploitation of misery of the family separation saga in the US and second on immigration itself. I will write about the former on this blog.
Sometime last week my daughter watched a supposed comedy movie clip which ended with a teenage daughter and her father being arrested and jailed. In the middle of the night, she came to my bed crying. She said that the father and daughter being jailed is bad and she is unable to sleep thinking of them. If my daughter is unable to sleep in the comfort of her bed, having watched the plight of someone being jailed in a movie, I can only imagine the impact of young kids being separated from their parents or guardians.
There is no point blaming Donald Trump alone for this. He did promise a lot of atrocious policies and he is implementing the same. This is also a result of years of propaganda. As bad as the move was, the resulting exploitation was awkward to see. There were four types of reactions, I want to highlight.
  1. Frenzy Media
  2. Partisan supporters
  3. Opportunists
  4. Partisan opponents

Frenzy Media

As depressing as the news is, it is important for the media to report on facts rather than make it into a reality show. To show crying babies is one but for the media personnel to behave like babies doesn’t inspire confidence in the news. Some of the adequately documented reports are ones where the reports understood the emotions but reported on facts. Opinions are good but that cannot reflect adrenalin rush. Further, when the reporters are trying to make a point, they need to check what they are doing. This below video tweeted by NYT is a perfect example. You don’t show late teen boys if you are trying to make a point on the unaccompanied migrant issue.

Partisan Supporters

I did not expect anything factual or reasonable or remotely nice from a person like Ann Coulter, especially on the subject of immigration. However, what was really appalling to see was the comparison of the immigrants to child rapists and gangsters. This is exactly the kind of rhetoric that intends to instil fear in the minds of people. Also to say we have to treat people seeking refuge humanely has nothing to do with not treating your own people badly. Treating everyone humanely cannot be considered as a ill-treatment of a few. Also, when one generalises immigrants from certain countries as criminals and rapists and criminals from other countries as individuals, it lacks any credibility. Further, no one I saw in the media actually wants open borders and uncontrolled immigration. To keep harping on that point and giving it credibility in the media is the very embodiment of fakery. It is also quite hypocritical when Tucker Carlson does this and complaints about the lack of decency in the left.

 

Opportunists

As bad as they are, the above two responses are in the expected lines. To me personally, the lines of decency are crossed when one starts to utilise such a situation for their personal agenda. For example, Dave Rubin tweeted the below. It not only delegitimised the opposition for this order, it also the wrong problem to highlight your libertarian agenda.
Firstly, he calls out Senator Chuck Schumer for not wanting to discuss this in the Senate and handle it through the executive branch. He highlights this as some kind of laziness on part of the senator. He also is hinting at this driving some kind of authoritarian streak. This argument doesn’t stand for two reasons.
  1. This situation was caused by an executive decision. So, it makes sense for the executive decision to reverse it. A bill through house and senate takes more time. It is not easy at the time of an emergency. 2000+ kids are already affected and one can’t wait for bills to be passed.
  2. The existing immigration bills in the House are bait instruments more than bills. It combines DACA renewal with building Trump’s border wall. It is not a bill that will ever get passed.
Secondly, he sarcastically points out at Trump repealing the separation order by making fun of people who compare Donald Trump with Adolf Hitler. I do not agree with the comparison of President Donald Trump with Adolf Hitler. We are pattern seeking mammals and want to compare one thing we don’t like to the other thing we don’t. That said, Donald Trump should not get credit for reversing an order that will stop the damage which he triggered in the first place. This is called fishing for credit where credit is not due.

Partisan opponents

This piece will not be complete without talking about Maxine Waters. Maxine is a democratic congresswoman from the state of California. Dignity and civility should not be optional traits in a civilised world. It is not an excuse to be uncivilised if you believe your opponent is wrong or even undignified. Maxine called for supporters to confront people in the Trump administration. This is a blatant call for harassment and will incite violence. You cannot become the monster you hate. If you oppose Trump’s lack of civility, you cannot retaliate with uncivil behaviour. Maxine’s behaviour definitely was uncalled for and diluted the entire opposition to this policy. The unruly opposition, in general, will only result in de-legitimising valid, civil opposition. No amount of blame transfer from Maxine can defend her call to confront and harass Trump administration officials who show up in public places.

Hero worship: A primitive, submissive, anti-enlightenment trait

Actor Rajni’s new movie Kaala released on 6-Jun-2018. His fans created their usual furore by blocking traffic, having giant banners erected on the streets and worshipping him by pouring milk on the banners. This frenzy of their primitive urges consumes his fans for a few days before they think of anything else. I do sometimes understand that government should not intervene in people’s lives but such behaviours are borderline sociopathic. Pouring huge quantity of milk on banners to mark celebration when you have babies dying of hunger and malnutrition is a venomous habit. While I do realise the actors might not condone it but they do not oppose it either. In one way, they depend on the fanatic following to keep them in business. This behaviour once again brings the entire topic of hero worship to the forefront of public debate.

Oxford Dictionary defines hero worship as an excessive admiration for someone. There are two key words here which make the trait extremely uncomfortable, first one is the adjective ‘excessive’ and the second one is the object ‘someone’. Any form of excessive admiration is going to be dangerous and if people start to admire individuals rather than behaviours, then you are surrendering your critical faculties to the whim of the admired.

Collage-Heroworship.jpgCollage of different hero worships in India

There is definitely a psychological and as an extension of the evolutionary reason for hero worship. I am definitely not an expert in the field but there are some good articles written in this area. The need for a hero figure who can solve all the worldly issues has resulted in allegories, the creation of Gods and prophets. As much as the archetype of longing for such heroic figures can have a primitive and evolutionary background, it doesn’t make the acting on this belief intellectually credible. We have a primitive urge to procreate as much as we can but most of us don’t do it as it is not needed and mostly counterproductive. The development of our large brain and its ability to process provides homo sapiens with the advantage of thinking beyond these legacies. I do see the point where some philosophers believe in a pragmatic nature of truth, whereby making actions like hero worship credible as a result of the net comfort it brings to the individuals who believe in it. However, I do not buy into that theory. It diminishes the expectation in people to think and act responsibly. Further, it also disregards the entire collective human knowledge we have gained from our history. Hero worship had no positive impact on the society and it is of no use in the present era.

On a more practical level, I find the behaviour of worshipping individuals as an enslavement of the human mind. It is a very submissive trait where one surrenders their critical faculties to the whim of individual being worshipped as the hero. This leads them to exhibit eccentric behaviours in favour of the hero. It also prevents people from seeing the flaws of the hero. I am fine with people looking at a trait and admiring a trait in other individuals but worshipping individuals come will be a slippery slope considering people exhibit complex and often contradictory behaviours. The idea of enlightenment in the modern philosophical context is one of reason, progress, liberty, emancipation and fraternity. I do not think hero workship, however defensible it may be from an evolutionary perspective can be squared into that category.

A perfect example of hysteria and lack of intellectualism in the public sphere

I recently watched a video of Dave Rubin giving a speech to a bunch of students from the University of New Hampshire. The event exemplified everything wrong with public discourse today.  Any meaningful discourse should result in people learning something new for them to reflect. This can only happen if both parties are willing to let fact change their opinions. Unfortunately, neither parties seem to be keen on doing that. Before I critique the event, I want to admit that I might sound slightly more critical of Dave than the college students. This is because of the relatively elevated standard I have for him as he is a public speaker. Also, I want to reiterate that though I do not agree with many of Dave’s beliefs and ideas, I haven’t found any evidence to think he is a dishonest player. He is not a racist or a bigot as some fringe elements have portrayed him. I have given the youtube link to the video below.
I want to capture my thoughts on this through the below eight points.

Let the speaker speak
University campuses should foster equality, opportunity, learning, diverse thought, rationalisation and promote civil discourse. It should be the centre of free speech. Physical violence, intolerance to speech, sexism, racism and discrimination should have no space in a university. Also, people should be able to listen to anyone speak and ask questions civilly. As students, you can protest but that should not be at the expense of listening to ideas. Lawrence Krauss’s lecture of physics has nothing to do with him sexual harassment complaints. Art, speech, debate, poetry or any form of communication can be offensive but students should be able to listen to them and critique the material and not the person. When students are not able to do it, then adults have to intervene and fix it. Protests should stay outside the halls where the speeches are given. Once the speaker starts, the students have to listen. Adults working in the university and the administrators should ensure this happens. Christopher Hitchens gave his speech on ‘God is not great’ book at the Google Talks. One of the response moved him but more importantly, no religious person threw a stone at him.

Know your audience, condescension doesn’t help
Dave Rubin started the speech by talking about the situation we are in being better than our grandparents. He already had a bunch of protestors shouting. It is easy to say one needs to understand the audience but that was a clear example of someone who is not a public speaker doing this. Dave Rubin was unable to capture the audience to start and had an expression of condescension when they started shouting. An alternate way to handle this is to acknowledge the issues facing people today. Even after the emancipation of slaves almost 15 decades back, there are issues of discrimination though not systemic. The law enforcement agencies sometimes end up not protecting people at the same level. Not all people can handle personal attacks and hatred at the same level. There is an explosion of information more than ever in the human history. We haven’t evolved to understand and constructively process this. If you want a healthy debate where people should listen to you, you have to pick the right words which will get through to everyone. A person was abused the day before is not going feel pleasant when you tell them your life is better than your grandfather.

Identity Politics hypocrisy 
Dave immediately moved on to talking about the perils of identity politics. I agree with the pugnacity of identity politics but share the idea of Sam Harris that the impact is relative. Also, I do not think labelling people, especially students is a prudent idea. However, the entire section highlighted the hypocrisy of Dave Rubin. Immediately after bashing identity politics, he asked the audience how many of them identify themselves as classical liberal or conservative etc. I felt like it wasn’t that Dave didn’t like identity politics. He just didn’t like the current segregation. He was fine with the segregation of classical liberal or conservative or socialist etc. This is either intellectual dishonesty or intellectual laziness. I can’t make my mind on which but it is bad either way.

Propagating stereotypes
Stereotypes are dangerous, especially if you are propagating something which has been used as a tool to run a class warfare for years. Dave Rubin told the students who were calling themselves conservatives, that they will study well, work hard, overcome obstacles, have fancy cars and property. Then he told the libertarians that they will smoke a lot of pot and argue about driver licence. He then went on to explain classical liberalism through the lens of the federal government. There is an underlying problem here. This argument that conservatives work hard, implying the others don’t is the very basis of most of the horrible conservative policies. He went on to also say that Political Right is the centre of free speech now. This is interesting considering the right has one of its thinnest-skinned presidents ever. The political right wants the power to abuse but not receive. This stereotype by Dave is a dangerous one and again I want to give him the benefit of doubt. He probably was doing this in a lighter vein.

Free speech without but
I like to believe I am a free speech absolutist. It can’t be limited even if you consider a speech hateful. Government or Individual cannot prosecute other for speech or thought. I also believe there is a way to communicate that to the audience. While I agree with Dave on the importance of free speech, I definitely feel he did a poor job in explaining it. The way I would start the conversation is by acknowledging how free speech is important for the dissenting voices. I would like to give Dave a lot of credit here. It is definitely hard to express your points properly when people are yelling at you in the public. At one point, a student actually asked a question which answered why Dave doesn’t want Government policing speech. I just wish Dave provided a justification instead of talking about the beauty of it. It is also important for Dave to talk about how free speech solves the problem for the people.

Working back from the solution
This is arguably the biggest problem I have with public discourse today. Everyone, from Dave Rubin to Brendan O’Neill, from Bill Maher to Glenn Greenwald from Cenk Uygur to Jordan Peterson, I see a pattern of confirmation bias and logical fallacies. As an observer, I find the below problem when they articulate. However, the biggest issue I see is working backwards from my preferred answer. Dave thinks conservative economics and individualism is the best possible solution, so he framed the questions in a way that it leads to that answer. Anything in the periphery can change his opinion but the core. I don’t want to ridicule anyone who does this as I see this as a pattern. The best speakers seem to be the ones who can induce the confirmation bias in the listeners to make them ignore fallacies. An example of the same was the below points.

Imagine, every single one of you has a better life than your grandparents. This is the best system possible that is why no one leaves. If you work hard, then you reap the rewards in the system.

Implicitly, Dave is telling the students that they should not disrupt this system. That aside, if you believe that this system is the best there possibly can be then the rest of the points look coherent. Now imagine you were on the wrong side of the financial crisis and now you are stuck with debt and a poorly paid job, what are the chances of the first statement being true. Even if the first statement is true, the next two cannot be either deduced or induced from the first.


Victim complex versus Victim bashing
This is a problem I see with many people now irrespective of their political beliefs. While I support the need to get rid of the victim complex, I increasingly see that as a tool to bash genuine victims. Also, do not judge cases based on your view of the organisation supporting the victims of those cases. Let me give you an example. Slavery has been abolished in the US for over 100 years now. Black Americans have the same rights as the white Americans or brown Americans. For the purposes of law, the colour of one’s skin is irrelevant. To talk about systemic racism doesn’t make sense anymore. However, that doesn’t mean there are acts of racism or bias in the society or individuals. If I get attacked because of my race, then it is an act of racism. If I get attacked because of my religion, it is an act of religious intolerance. In some instances, people can see patterns. I acknowledge the pattern can be misleading but that doesn’t discredit their existence. In a college where multiple people have been abused for the race or ethnicity, it is not a question of the students playing victims. They are victims. To say that your great grandfathers were slaves, so thank for your current situation is not an answer. If your starting position is government should not legislate against this, then suggest an alternative to these students. Otherwise, you are not part of the solution, you are the new problem. Hatred is not easy to deal. It is funny when the same people asking students to deal with the hatred are the ones defending Trump voters from the hatred of the liberals. I am not for reducing free speech to handle hatred but we also need a way to make people deal with it.

Offence over history and speech
What I found particularly annoying with students was their unwillingness to listen to anything bad. Dave Rubin is not going to physically assault anyone or call names. He has a particular opinion which you might not agree but universities are places to listen to multiple voices. The supporters and opposers of Vietnam war studied in the same university in the 1960s. You might have a person from Israel and a person from Palestine in your office. What’s more, the Israeli person could have lost a family member in the Holocaust and the Palestine person could have lost her/his in the Israeli bombing. Shelly, Keats and Shakespeare might have said or written about something you don’t like. Einstein or Newton could have done something you find reprehensible. The University is a place where you learn history, have a civil discourse, understand history and respect other’s rights like they respect yours. Everyone has the right to exist, morality changes with time, speech is the only civil way to share ideas and one cannot be prosecuted for thought crime. It is important to learn to live decently and above all dissent decently.

An anti-conformist & contrarian view

One of my constant philosophical internal struggles is comprehending the tribalism in human species as it overpowers the more harmonious social bondage we should have inherited from our primate ancestry. From my basic understanding of the primate behaviours, the primate social bondage is far less tribal at least within their own species.  However, as humans, we tend to bond as tribes than as a collective species. This is an intriguing subject as the people who seem to be against the innate tribalism then inadvertently fall into the very same bucket. I for one have to admit that in spite of my best efforts I have exhibited that in my own life.

I once considered myself a Marxist or a communist. I do miss those days when I could form a bond with the fellow Marxists but I don’t believe Marxism as a global solution anymore. Nowadays, I call myself a Marxist only when I have a get under the skin of a bunch of free-market capitalists. I don’t think I can be a Marxist as even Karl Marx wouldn’t be one today. The causal factors which led Marx to do his work don’t exist today. Quoting the Danish Philosopher, Søren Kierkegaard, “Life can only be understood backwards, but it must be lived forwards.” I do not think I can reverse history to go back to those old days. So belonging to these tribes will only come at the peril of restricting my thought and not learning.

For some time now, I have decided not to associate myself with any group. To put me into any of the groups mean, I concur with the view of the group. To continue to belong to that group when my views contradict the group is the very definition of non sequitur. I consider this true with everything, leftist, Marxist, liberal, socialist, feminist and to even some extent atheist etc. I am much more comfortable in calling myself into anti tribe than a tribe. I consider myself an anti-theist than an atheist, an anti-male chauvinist than a feminist, an anti-authoritarian than a leftist, an anti-conservative rather than a liberal and so on.

Over the last few years, I found almost all the public movements are shades of grey, the altercations between the public intellectuals have been personal attacks rather than ideologies and above all simple philosophies like free-speech, right to peaceful dissent and civil liberty have different meanings for different people. I also found some crazy people who capitalised on these divides. This has also coincided with the entire social media hysteria, lack of journalistic honesty from the mainstream media and finally everyone with a pen and studio calling themselves a journalist. I definitely see the positive side of this story but I can also see how crazy this has become.  I also realised that the current crop of people who call themselves the gatekeepers of the left have ended up with a thinner skin, thicker ego and lost the ability to have a sensible conversation with adversaries.

Therefore, I want to move from the cult mentality to the issues. I want to do this by using the same approach I use in my consulting role. I want to break down problems into facts, opinions and people. My approach can be broken down into the below four points.

  • Take stance on issues based on facts. If facts change my stance changes.
  • Call our hypocrisy, lies, and anti-fact behaviours
  • Provide feedback to people based on issues and not based on opinions, or simply avoid ad hominem
  • A converse of the above, never agree with opinions because you like the person
  • Inductive fallacy – Avoid generalisation based on probability or carefully chosen pieces of evidence

I feel the present status of most discussion is a false dichotomy. If you are in the United States, then you are either a Republican or a Democrat. If you are in the United Kingdom, you are either a Labour or a Conservative.  My stand depends on the issues and not what the liberal or conservative philosophy says. The below table demonstrates the need to move from the cults of the left to the points on the right. I want to leave the usage of left and right to just this table and not what the meaning has become.

 

 From To 
  • Liberal vs illiberal
  • Socialism vs capitalism
  • Left vs Right
  • Labour vs conservative
  • Political interventions
  • Political Correctness
  • Islamism
  • Theism
  • Systemic Racism
  • Identity Politics
  • Role of government
  • Role of large corporations
  • Role of markets
  • Globalisation
  • Migration
  • Regulations
  • Women’s rights
  • Economics
  • Nationalism
  • Moral frameworks
  • Free Speech
  • Climate change
  • LGBT rights
  • Education
  • Health Care

In doing so, I want to be extremely tough on few behaviours listed below.

  1. Using one’s rights to erode other’s rights or using freedom against itself
  2. Moving from left to right or vice versa
  3. Calling everything a faith

Using one’s rights to erode other’s rights or using freedom against itself is a seriously dangerous trend. It is the incongruence where people want to use freedom of expression to shut other’s freedom of expression. The classic examples are when people want to stop speakers as they are offensive, especially when the audience is supposed to be adults. It has taken extreme forms in the recent years. You see the terrorists use the secular values in Europe to propagate religious intolerance. You see the students in colleges revolting against everything that they do not like to hear. Offensive speech and hate speech should not be stopped as the modern day acceptable speech was offensive few years back.

I am tired of this phrase moving from left to right or vice versa. I see the former more than the latter. As an audience to shows like the Rubin Report, I see these people a lot. However, the problem is very simple, just because you don’t agree to the left doesn’t mean you are going to agree to the right. That is a false dichotomy and people who do that have to be called out. It is not a journey if you learn people on one side are wrong as a natural consequence people on the other side should be right.  To simplify, if we find that Obama was wrong an issue it doesn’t mean Trump is right. It is a naive way to look at the world. Such people haven’t demonstrated any learning. It is again a tribal behaviour. You made a hasty decision assuming that everything was right in one tribe. You learnt it is not true. Instead of moving out of all tribes, you have joined the opposite gang with the same approach that made you join the first tribe. This is not an evolution as Dave Rubin generally wants to put. It justifies moving out but doesn’t justify moving into the next one.

The third one is a very tiring and a circular reasoning issue. Most people who say this start with the reasoning that faith is someone innate and end with that. Faith is something which evidence can’t break. Anti-faith is a behaviour where my position is based on the evidence presented and will change when evidence suggests the contrary. Let me take the most common faith, faith in god. The logic used to justify the existence of god is either because there is no conclusive theory to confirm the source of something or a based on stories of some individuals. The former is a logical fallacy called an argument from ignorance.  The latter is a mere extension of the faith. Now you need to have faith in other individuals who in turn will become the proof of god. This fallacy is called an appeal to authority.  If god appears in front of me and other’s in an undeniable way and consistently, then we will all start accepting God. Then God is not faith anymore, it is based on evidence. So, the logic still remains, believing in evidence is not a faith. It is like saying accepting truth is a faith. This carefully constructed wordplay intended to make the repeated assertions as a proof of the proposition.

I feel passionate about the topics listed above and the philosophies underneath. I want to do my best by basing it facts and logic rather than a cultish or mob hysteria. This would mean that I want to take stances against everyone I agree with on another issue. Truth has no obligation to be pleasant to me or even good for humanity. I want to be happy with truth instead of basing my life on lies.

Any culture worshipping misogyny will become the epicenter of rape

Yet another rape in India, this time of an eight-year-old child by eight men. While that is gruesome in isolation, the nature of the event and the religious frenzy which followed has made it extremely gut-wrenching. This has resulted in an avalanche of sexual abuse cases getting reported, mostly against minors. To me, this is India in a nutshell. For the rest of the world, India is a secular democracy with a majority Hindu population. It has seen a tremendous growth over the last few decades, thanks to information technology services and globalisation. For some Westerners, India and China are the embodiment of eastern mysticism. They somehow think there is more to these cultures than mere age. I do not share that view. For me, it is an epidemic of problems with a culture of misogyny. It is the epicentre of rape and sexual abuse in the world, stemming from a strong religious value. I do not intend to take a cheap shot at religions to gain mileage from these atrocious crimes. I want to reflect on growing up as a man in this extreme misogynic culture.
Sometime in 2013, I had an argument with one of my lady colleagues in India. I told her, I believe that sexual abuse in India is a bigger epidemic than what gets reported. In order to test my hypothesis, I told her to check with the 60+ women working in the office if they have ever been groped or sexually assaulted at least once in their lives. My test was, if more than 80% of the people say yes to it, then my hypothesis is valid. To her surprise, the result for 100% and what is worse the most of them have multiple harrowing stories. While most countries talk about discrimination at different levels, sexual abuse is definitely a red line. Misogyny is pervasive globally but some cultures protect and worship it more than others. India worships misogyny through its religious ideologies. An average male is more chauvinistic than most other cultures. Let us drill down on this further.
For the sake of accuracy, I want to start by acknowledging a couple of facts. I do this to set to rest the common and rather stupid copouts given by religious nutjobs for the behaviour of men in their communities.
  1. Accepting the risk of approximation, it won’t be inaccurate to say a majority of males are more physically powerful than their female counterparts, assuming they belong to the same ethnicity and share the same food habits.
  2. The need to take control of one’s life and exert some degree of power over others is quite innate in most primates.

These two points are true globally but sexual abuses are not that common in the rest of the world as it is in the religious nations. So there are some cultures which have evolved more than the others.

Influence of the religions

According to the 2011 census in India, India has close to 79.8% Hindus, 14.2% Muslims, 2.3% Christians and 1.7% Sikhs. The rest of the religions and non-affiliated population constitute around 2%. For the sake of ease, let me take the top 94% of the population for this study which comprises of Hindus and Muslims. It will definitely not require a massive leap of faith if one were to look at India through the history of these two religious faiths. Both Hindus and Muslims claim that their religion is one which respects women. The reality is any nation which has these religions as a majority doesn’t seem to be a friendly place for women. Then how do these religions claim to be so pro-women. Both Hinduism and the Abrahamic faiths find a strong reason to protect and defend their women. They do not believe they can do that themselves. They also believe left to themselves they cannot be as moral as their male counterparts. The other countries which feel subjugation is a form of protection include Saudi Arabia, Iran, Mauritania, Pakistan etc. The connection is very obvious to see. India is rather unique in this coalition of rotten chauvinists. India has a ‘Secular Democracy’ or at least a constitution which says so. By giving each religion a unique right to practice its chauvinism, India has projected an image of religious tolerance. This dissonance is hard for most people to assimilate and understand. It is easier when Saudi Arabia or Pakistan do it. But when there are multiple religions and one defends the other in this act, the process is tricky. So, we need to unpack these religions one by one.
Let me start with Hindus. It is a polytheistic religion. These are the people who worship, Rama, Krishna and Shiva as Gods. It is also true that there are just as many female Gods in Hinduism as there are male gods. However, that is the bait. If people listen to the myths, they will understand that these ‘Gods’ are not just immoral normally but extremely misogynistic. Rama’s wife Sita was kidnapped by another king who fell for her beauty. When she got freed, Rama wanted his wife to prove her chastity by walking into a pyre of fire. He didn’t trust her ‘purity’ because she was kidnapped by another guy. Years later as a king of a nation, he asked his pregnant wife to do the same when his citizens doubted her. When she refused, he sent her into exile. He later wanted her back as he wanted to do some prayers which required him to have his wife. However, he wanted her to do the purity test once more before she gets back to the kingdom. This “God” is worshipped and is considered as an ideal husband, someone every woman should hope for. Half of India is fine with waging a war to get a temple built for his person.
Let’s take the next God Krishna, who goes an extra mile with his libido. The stories of Mahabharata, various Upanishads and Gita Govinda describe his amorous life in great detail. Somewhere I feel the sick intentions of the author come out in these works. His crude and despicable sexual escapades with both married and single women in his village are romanticised through songs and dance. My intestine rolls over when I see women dance for these songs. It is an insult to human decency.
The third major God worshipped in India is Siva. As the legend goes that Siva disapproved of his wife(Sati) attending a pooja done by her father. She goes in spite of that, gets disrespected and self-immolates herself as she has disobeyed her husband’s order. She is considered a great moral example. There is no wonder, this is also the reason behind the practice of Sati, where a widow immolates herself on her husband’s pyre. It has taken centuries for people to come out of this practice and there are still some fringe forces which want to restart this.
Looking at all this it is rather bemusing when the ruling party in the Government of India wants to establish a ‘Rama Rajya’ meaning rule of Rama. When a majority of the country think it should happen, we have wonder about the state of their minds. No wonder every religious scumbag wants to molest the girl hoping to use these examples to get away.
Let us now go to the Muslims. These are worshippers of Allah through the words of their prophet. Muhammad, a conquering warlord in Arabia is said to have married 13 women. This perfect prophet married his wife Aisha when she was six and consummated the marriage when she was nine. It is worthy to note that Muhammad was 53 at that time. In many countries, it is legal for parents to get their daughter married at age nine. In India, it is allowed only for Muslims. Further men are allowed to have up to four wives at any time.
Hadiths which are interpretations of the Quran offer 72 virgins to martyrs. Husbands are legally permitted to beat their wife if they follow the Sharia laws. In 2005, an Islamic seminary told a woman who was raped by her father-in-law to start treating her husband like her son. He used the Quran to justify this. When she defied these orders she was punished instead of her rapist father-in-law. This is what Muslim leaders want, a special court for themselves where justice is based on their medieval beliefs disseminated by a horny and deluded warlord.
There are a great number of examples of the culture of rape and sexual assault in India but nothing exemplifies it more than the events which happened on the western border of India during 1947. The Hindus, Muslims and Sikhs ganged up to rape the women and sometimes minor girls in the other communities. The documentary below shows men who are proud of their act.

What do the stats say?

Now, let us look at some statistics. In this age, twenty-two girls die every day in India due to dowry-related violence. One the average there are 70 rape cases reported every single day. This means by the time you read this blog post there has been a new rape case reported somewhere in the country. Again, this is only a reported crime. Most rapes go unreported as it is considered a social stigma. Further marital rape is not considered a crime in India. Then there are sexual abuses, eve teasing and groping cases which will include every girl in every city. Almost all of these go unreported. The other major crimes against female include infanticide, forced prostitution, domestic violence, forced marriage and worst of all chemical attacks.
International Men and Gender Equality Survey conducted a survey which showed some disturbing results.
  • A man should have the final word about decisions in his home – 81%
  • A woman should tolerate violence in order to keep her family together – 68%
  • There are times when a woman deserves to be beaten – 65%
  • Perpetrating physical violence against partner – 37%
  • Carried sexual violence against a female – 24%
When 65% of men think that woman deserves to be beaten, you cannot brush it as a fringe group. When 24% of men have admitted to sexual violence, it is not a fringe group. The common excuse that most religious people are moderates and law-abiding citizens is not actually true. My thoughts go back to Christopher Hitchens book, ‘god is not great. How religion poisons everything?’. I want to quote the American physicist Steven Weinberg here, “Religion is an insult to human dignity. With or without it you would have good people doing good things and evil people doing evil things. But for good people to do evil things, that takes religion.”

Priests involved in rape

It is also noteworthy that there is a large number of religious priests and gurus who have been involved in sexual abuses. While this is pretty much a global phenomenon, India is special in its complete lack of respect for evidence and prolonged support for these people under the pretext of religion is something to cringeworthy. Here are some of the high profile cases from my recent memory. In each of these cases, the followers continue to believe that the alleged rapist is innocent.
  1. Asaram Bapu, a septuagenarian godman has been accused of raping a 16-year-old girl.
  2. Rajneesh or Osho had practices within his ashram, which earned him the nickname ‘sex guru’
  3. Jayendra Saraswati, a Hindu seer was accused a sexually assaulting a female writer.
  4. Gurmeet Ram Rahim a self-styled spiritual leader has been accused of rape and murder
  5. Father Robin Vadakkumcherry has been arrested  for raping a minor girl and making her pregnant

Seeing this in practice

If you want to further evidence of this archaic belief system and misogyny worship, one has to witness Indian weddings. I have witnessed quite a few wedding during my life there across the three major religions. I will call out two really ugly practices.
  1. In Hindu weddings, the father of the bride performs a ceremony where he donates his daughter to the groom as a gift (of a virgin). The girl has to consider her husband a form of Vishnu, a Hindu god. This ugly practice is supposed to give salvation to the bride’s father as he has done the ultimate sacrifice. Some scumbags call this practice a testimony to the respect women have in Hinduism. This happens at every wedding and is a soul-crushing activity ( http://www.csuchico.edu/anth/mithila/kanyadan2.htm ).
  2. In Muslim weddings, immediately after the ceremony is over a priest or imam explains the role of a wife. I was a distressed participant to one of these weddings when my friend’s sister got married. The priest speaks about how the wife has to be obedient to her husband, be ready to meet his needs and desires, content with what her husband provides, do household work and honour her husband. She is expected to be a sex slave who does household work for free. (http://eng.islam-today.ru/women-in-islam/what-are-the-duties-of-a-muslim-woman-toward-her-husband/)

Conclusion

I can go on and on about the pervasive misogyny and its roots in religion. One of the most touching and hard-hitting work is the documentary ‘India’s Daughter’. A 23-year-old female physiotherapy intern was brutally raped and killed in the capital of India. The religious leaders from all major religions were quick to blame the girl and society for the lack of modesty. Here is the documentary for you to watch.
In the spirit of honest disclosure, I did reflect a lot as I started synthesising the content of this blog. I am definitely a vociferous critic of any cultural elements which are sacrosanct because they have practised long. I want to trust in my quest for truth in an unbiased fashion. I promised myself that I will go back and correct my work if I learnt anything which makes it inaccurate. When rape and sexual abuse become an epidemic, the culture has to reflect and look at the root causes. For now, the only common thread across all the rapes in India is a religion promoted misogyny. There is no way to fight violence against women in India keeping religious views intact. It is an insult to morality and decency.
Some examples

Brahminism – Why it can’t be eradicated without contesting brahmins

My previous article had the on the “resurgence of brahminim” deliberately left a few questions unanswered. I want to take those questions, and also elaborate on why brahminism cannot be eradicated without contesting brahmins.

  1. Brahmins aren’t the only people who are obsessed with their caste? Why are you taking them on and not everyone else? Do you think they are a soft target or are you scared of taking any other caste on?
  2. Why use the word brahminism instead of casteism?
  3. There are plenty of rich people in the society and not just brahmins. Brahmins are a minority. Further, there are plenty of poor brahmins. How can brahmins be responsible?

I am sure there are plenty of others but they either variants of the above question or too stupid to answer.

As I mentioned in my article, I do not consider the modern brahmins as just the traditional brahmins, while they do form a part of it. Brahminism according to me is a social construct which has a community at the top dictating or at least having control over the progress of the society. There are few key social constructs which drive any heterogeneous progressive society, which eventually aims be a land of opportunity. The first one is access to quality education for all, the second construct is to remove any barriers of discrimination and the third construct is to provide health care. These three key constructs which will drive progress have been controlled and dragged by the modern brahmins.

Let me start with education. My parents like pretty much most people of their generation studied in a government school. Furthermore, they were from rural India. They ended up as professor and school teacher in government-aided institutions. Every baby boomer in India who is from an upper middle class to a lower class background would have studied in a government school. All their children went to private schools. I studied in a truly secular, affordable private school but even there the behaviours were extremely discriminatory. The government schools over the years lost their funding and the quality has been let down deliberately. The private schools where teachers are paid less than a living wage are supposed to be of better quality. When I got admission to study engineering, there was twice the number of private engineering institutions as the state-run ones. Today the percentage has quadrupled. Further, the path to get into better institutions have been curtailed a lot through co-curricular addendums which cannot be afforded by everyone. Education has been bought over by the rich.

Secondly, the emancipation of the discriminated classes in India has not gone well with the modern brahmins. There is an abject condemnation of the miserable state of the discriminated classes. One needs to understand that the slavery was abolished in the US before the caste-based discrimination got legally abolished in India.  A vast majority of these people have parents who were not allowed to enter some streets in their village. I prefer the word brahminism instead of the caste system. Caste system refers to the system of having different communities. Brahminism, on the other hand, are the rules enabling the discrimination of these communities and the laws governing their social status. There are people in my own extended family circle and acquaintances who believe they are superior to the other communities.

The most common argument is that not all brahmins are rich and their biggest regret is the reservation system in India. While I do agree that the reservation system in India has its flaws and can definitely be improved, poor brahmin fetches just as much sympathy from me as a wounded terrorist. The moment a person is referring to oneself as a brahmin, then she/he doesn’t deserve the pity. The acknowledgement to belong to a class which has ordained itself the right to discriminate after knowing everything they have done in the past will only get my ire, not sympathy.  I always see these brahmins complain about reservation depriving of their opportunities but never about wealthy individuals doing the same, even though the latter takes a larger share of the pie.

So, why has this problem become relevant now? If we scratch the surface the deeper cunning brahminism exists even today. The classic example is Mohandas Karamchand Gandhi. Gandhi was born to a trader community in India and was a staunch Hindu. When he realised that Dr. B.R. Ambedkar has started to mobilise all the classes of the discriminated people with him, Gandhi played one of the cheapest possible tricks. He plagiarised the word Harijan, meaning people of Vishnu. He used that to describe the discriminated classes indicating that they were the people of the Hindu God. That diluted their movement to federate and self-determinate. The situation on the ground hasn’t changed a lot since. The modern brahmins are just waiting for the right opportunity.  It is not possible to eradicate brahminsm without tackling them. The key attribute of the resurgence now is a sense of pride in belonging to the community that has come to the present generation. It has been portrayed as a benign, moderate, scientific culture which is no different from any other groups. Society can only ignore it at the peril of civilisation. The roots of these people come from a dangerous book  Manusmriti (Laws of Manu).  It is a dangerous cult which is no different from fascism, national socialism (of which they are sympathisers), wahabism or the KKK. Brahminism is a dangerous ideology and should be eliminated and eradicated. It should be learnt in the history book as the rest of the horrific ideologies of the past but not practiced. Brahmins are the custodians of Brahminism. I finally came to the conclusion which EV Ramasamy did, “Brahminism cannot be eradicated without fighting Brahmins”.

The resurgence of brahminism in India

Dr B.R. Ambedkar was once quoted saying “The history of India is nothing but a history of a mortal conflict between Buddhism and Brahminism.“. I consider the use of the words Buddhism and Brahminism metaphorical like Einstein’s god. While Brahminism stands for inequality, divide and discrimination, Buddhism stands for equality, love and peace. While all Buddhists and Brahmins might not entirely fall into those buckets, I can broadly accept the usage as a metaphor.

During the British rule of India, two groups started to benefit albeit at different levels. The brahmins who held the monopoly over social rules and education started to gain massive financial grounds by capitalising on their social status and knowledge. The Dalits who were discriminated and kept at the bottom of the social pyramid saw light through a government which didn’t care much about the Indian Caste Structure. Though, the British government didn’t change the structure at it roots it provided a way for the Dalits to see what can be done.

Post achieving their right to self-determine and govern themselves from the British, Indian government put in several constitutional measures to ensure equality in the society and upliftment of the downtrodden. However, that didn’t again fundamentally kill the biases in the society. It got questioned, suppressed and most commonly capitalised to the benefit of the ruling population. Now, it is raising its ugly head, just that this new version of the social software is much more dangerous. I want to break this down into happenings, reason and way forward.

What is the present state of India?

The caste system is rife with different sects of the society wanting to become the Brahmins of the past. When I last visited India, I found a rather depressing need for people to find out who is below them in the society. There was a sense of entitlement towards possession. I also saw an acute admonishment towards people who do possess lesser than oneself. There were plenty of cultish movements which had little regards for history or truth. I want to broadly classify this social phenomenon as the resurgence of the Brahminism in India.

As I mentioned above, the traditional brahmins have gained a lot of wealth, social status and power in the society. In the last century, there have been plenty of social changes, as a result, they had to give up their long-held right to dictate and discriminate the society. However, at their roots, they haven’t changed. They have found the erosion to their right to discriminate others extremely hard to accept while their accumulation of wealth as a matter of pride.

Traditional brahmins are not alone here. There are three sets of modern brahmins in the present day India.

  1. Traditional brahmins – People who still call themselves brahmins by caste
  2. Other castists – People who still believe in caste system and strongly associate themselves with a caste
  3. Wealthy individuals – People with immense wealth to be able to drive around the society they way they wish

India, much like the US has a culture of entitlement and fate, where wealth is entitled and poverty is a result of fate; the crony combination of Capitalism and Theocracy. There are three indicators which have made me realise the resurgence of Brahminism in a more modern sense.

  1. Grassroot movements spreading the righteousness of the religious & castist practices in India
  2. Growing intolerance towards dissent and alternate viewpoints
  3. Identity Politics – Realignment of people based on religion, caste and wealth

So, what are the evidence of each of these?

Grassroot movements: The social media has made the spread of  (mis)information extremely easy. Over the last few years, I increasingly see spread of messages praising the brahmins of the past, justifying caste systems, a neo-spiritual explanation for all the myths, a justification for past deeds of castists, a call for a fundamental belief system and above all a cry of foul over brahmins behind considered a venom of the caste system. I originally dismissed this as an aberration. I began to then see mass movements towards traditionalistic conservatism. Then I realised, my friends who were at least secular before are infected by this.  It has spread from just a Brahmin concept to a full-fledged rollback of social development. E. V. Ramasamy, popularly known as ‘Periyar’ was an anti-castist and a social reformer in southern India. He once said society cannot eliminate Brahminism without fighting Brahmins. It is so true. The torchbearers of the castist ideologies have just kept it hidden for decades. However, what is worse is that every other caste which was either discriminated or was on the periphery have joined the Brahmin bandwagon.

There is absolutely no intellectual honesty or a forum for healthy debate on the disconcerting Indian history. Freedom of speech as a constitutional right has been completely overruled by the right to get offended or more precisely right to physically attack blasphemy. Every cult or group having more than 50 members have enough hooligans and goons to cause chaos. In the past one year, India has witnessed attacks against non-believers, religious minorities in a location, women, individuals whose opinions are not accepted and worst of all attack on law enforcement for arresting a religious leader accused of raping minor girls. A bunch of activists who protested against intolerance and calling for freedom of speech were attacked under the name of nationalism. Anyone questioning any religion, especially the credentials of Hinduism is put behind bars or has to face mob justice.

Karl Marx referred to religion as the “sigh of the oppressed creature, the heart of a heartless world, and the soul of soulless conditions. It is the opium of the people.” There can’t be a bigger testimony to those words than India. Religion has given people a tool to explain their status in the society, use it discriminate, use it to justify discrimination and use it to accept poverty and discrimination. Every religion feels superior using the same principles. Every caste seems to think the same way. The Wealthy feel entitled to their wealth either using Free Market Liberal principles or religious principles. Sometimes even they want to feel discriminated. The worst part of this is even the discriminated groups have now forgotten what they fought. They have made their new caste their identity and want special treatment. The identity of individuals seems to be their religion and caste. There is not a single secular party in India which has a truly non-religious aligned candidate. Parties decide the political candidate in an area is based on the major caste in that area.

So, what?

The most common question I encounter when I place this rather uncomfortable state in front of the fanatics is, “so, what? why is this Brahminism?”. I want to break this down to what exactly is happening as a result of all this. If one looks at traditional brahmins, their biggest levers were

  1. Ability to dictate people’s position in the social pyramid
  2. Education

M.K. Gandhi, himself a big castist supported the secular candidate Jawaharlal Nehru as the first prime minister of India. Nehru was a secular social democrat. He ended up working on making education free at best and affordable at worst. He worked with Dr BR Ambedkar to ensure systemic changes to dismantle the then social structures. He also ensured that businesses are controlled and regulated. Also, the policies were intended to ensure there is an equitable distribution of wealth and economic redistribution.

What has neo-brahminism done? It has undone the work of the first parliament. Secularism is just an abused word now. People who utilised the public education system from the early 1950s to late 1960s have not invested back into the system. They voted in favour of  private schools. The communities which were against discrimination now want the right to discriminate. The communities which had to stop discrimination are crying foul and want to discriminate again.

There are private schools, colleges and universities all over the country. These schools are extremely expensive and quite elitist. You cannot land in a decent university unless you are from one of these private schools. This leaves people who didn’t ride the first wave of social welfare or have subsequently been brought down with little or no scope of reviving their lives. The next genius could be languishing in the slums of Mumbai or the ghastly mines of Korba or the footpaths in Chennai or the stuck in the chaos of Kashmir. The only equality measure left in the system in of reservation, which is currently hogged by people who have already been capitalised. You will see a lot of people in India complain about reservation while virtually no one complaining about money in education. Caste as a means to bias in education is bad but money in education is just as bad if not worse. Reservation in education for underprivileged communities doesn’t take the opportunity away from people of privilege but money in education does.

Now, what?

There is no way to end Brahminism without taking the privilege out of the brahmins. Brahmins hold a grip over most critical events in a person’s life from birth to weddings to death. There is a social pressure to fall in line with their expectations. It can only be broken through education and counter approaches. We cannot silence them as that would amount to arresting freedom of speech. We need counter opinions to take the stigma out of not being associated with them. Once these key events do not require being associated with a brahmin, it takes the sting off their venom.

The next thing is to make education public and take money out of education. For this to happen, the government has to do the following

  1. Slowly eliminate private players from education
  2. Remove the system where seats can be bought by rich people
  3. Ensure lodging and food can be made free to all deserving students

The only way to make this happen is to increase the budget for education. Make the corporations pay their share.

Brahminism is dangerous. It has corrupted the Indian societies for over 3000 years. There is no justification for the caste system and is utterly made up.

Social Media Trials – an inferno which will engulf us all

Al Franken resigned from the Senate last week after a spate of allegations against him. His resignation speech was massively criticised by many.  When I listened to it, the speech reminded me of the multiple facets which were wrong about our system. As a person growing up in India, I always read news where media would convict an individual without proper trial. Then, there were instances where people take laws into their own hands and hand over punishment to people on the streets. The inability of the judicial branch to run a fair and fast trial on the accused or protect the rights of the common citizens, made the medial and social trials a very fancied alternatives. All of a sudden there was a craze to beat someone on the streets with no trial. While they did get the right perpetrator at times, it was a dangerous trend, as it gives authority for a group to hit anyone you don’t like. With the social media, I now see these two dangerous trends have been amalgamated to create a parallel judicial system filled with trolls who have the attention span of a sparrow. If legislative side is beginning to get affected by this then I feel the next few years are extremely dangerous. I want to break this down by clarifying my position on sexual harassment, and then on this public justice obsession.

Most traditions and almost every religion claims that it has great respect for women, however I haven’t seen even a single one do so in practice. Women have been subjugated and abused for generation. It is great to hear their voices and see the change in the society.

Sexual abuse is a despicable act and shouldn’t be tolerated even between partners. What is worse than the abuse itself is the victim bashing. One cannot blame someone else for one’s inability to keep their libido to themselves. It is paramount to have a society where people speak out against the perpetrators without any inhibition. It is also more important to ensure the society protects these people. I wish more people come out in open to share their stories and more people do so immediately. Above all, I wish these incidents stop happening in the generations to come. So, I want to eliminate these three main oppositions to the people coming out.

  1. They had it coming because of their lack of culture, values or morality.
  2. They should avoid group mentality and handle this as individuals.
  3. They should have done it immediately. Since they have delayed it, the accusation lacks merit.

All three reasons are copouts by people who do not have any intellectual capital.I have carefully framed the sentences neutrally with no reference to any gender.

My concern is not with people coming out but the way these accusations are being dealt. For what it is worth, these are still accusations and do not have proof yet. I want more and more people to come out and share their experiences, but I do not want people to take action on that. We should have an investigation before taking actions. Ten accusations doesn’t mean one is guilt of the crime, it just increases the probability of having done it. Investigation needs honest assessment of facts over emotional reaction to certain posts. Reality is different from reality shows. Facts cannot be measured by number of likes. This lynch mob mentality has been a dangerous development in the last few years. Someone says something and twitter goes crazy for a couple of days. Then they move on to the next issue leaving people behind.

Genuine Victims are left behind

Social Media is great as a mechanism to reach out to thousands of people. What used to take days to achieve has been reduced to minutes if not seconds. However, the mechanism to disseminate information cannot be used to accelerate investigation. One of the key aspect of investigation is protection of victims and ensure they get their due justice. By not letting investigation run through its due coarse and by exhibiting the primitive mob mentality, people affected will not get the necessary justice. They are told that a bunch of people have just abused the accused perpetrator and at its worst, the person will have to find another job. This is not justice for the genuine victims. This doesn’t prevent further such incidents, this doesn’t provide legal protection to the victims, this doesn’t ensure that the victim can move on in their life.

You could hurt an innocent

It might sound harsh and even brash to the moral crusaders in Twitter, you can hurt innocents by doing your emotional justice mechanism. When Starbucks CEO said that he plans to recruit refugees, one group started going more to Starbucks and another one started attacking them. The result is few innocent coffee-goers got hurt. By responding to sexual abuse allegations with instant vilification, you might end up crusading against everyone and not just the perpetrators. You also set a dangerous precedence where anyone can raise a point and a mob picks it up and acts on it. This is not different from how the notorious religious extremist groups react. They don’t care about facts, they just pick up clues from one of their biased media outlets or Twitter rants and react. In this process, you do not know who gets hurt.

Facts are bigger than emotions

The media is hardly sharing facts. In stead they are sharing emotions. For some reason, this seems to be the anti-pattern. When I read a news item, I am looking for answers to the three of the important questions.

  1. What did the person do?
  2. What is the evidence for saying that the person did that?
  3. What are the causal factors which led to this?
  4. What are the supporting evidences which will corroborate this story if any.

At the same time, I am wary of flowing emotions and call for immediate judgements without presenting any evidence what so ever. As I say this, I also acknowledge that most sexual abuses happen when there is no third person to testify. Also, it makes the life of the victim extremely harrowing to answer prying and deeply skeptical questions. This also is a testimony to my original point of protecting the victim. So, it is a fine balance and a skill to muster enough evidence to be able to piece together a picture. We are emotional beings but making decisions without looking at facts, especially when it can affect countless lives is a dangerous precedence.

Selfishly, it could be “you”

As the saying goes, “Be careful what you wish for, lest it come true.”  When people ask for these emotionally charged immediate decisions, it sets a dangerous trend. I have been having discussions with some of my colleagues on this dangerous trend. Everyone can fall into a majority or a minority group depending on the group. So, if you start to make decisions depending on whether the victim belongs to a discriminated minority and not on facts, the trend can come back to hit you hard. Let’s focus on the crime and evidence and not the demographic. If I find ten non white, straight, christian, male to say something about you, then are you guilty?

You follow the collective over the cliff

The other dangerous trend I see is to claim innocence if a person is elected. Donald Trump, Roy Moore or Al Franken cannot be termed innocent because people have decided to elect them in spite of the accusations against them. This is a phenomenon of collective suicide. Popular opinions and facts are not always linked. Further it creates a herd mentality and people stop thinking.

Conclusion

To conclude, I feel people should take the following steps before taking against individual.

  1. Hear the victim
  2. Protect victim’s identity and interest
  3. Share the next steps with the victim and also call out for the need to protect the accused’s identity
  4. Commit to a free and fair investigation
  5. Act based on the evidences found
    1. Take necessary strong action if the evidence is conclusive
    2. If the result is inconclusive but favours one party over the other, then
      1. Protect the identity of the individuals
      2. share the findings
      3. Issue necessary warnings
      4. Move the doubtful person from any role of influence on the other
    3. If the result is completely inconclusive, then
      1. be transparent with the findings
      2. protect identities
      3. ensure you take necessary actions to be able to capture evidences in the future.
  6. Reflect on the policies and make appropriate changes

If you do not follow the due process before making any decision, then it is a dangerous trend. It could very easily create divisive environment, snowball into a moral crisis and polarise people to form group consensus rather than solve the issue.